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About Us

Balance for Life has been a thriving business since 2001, encouraging restorative behavior in all its forms. From Massage & Vibrational/Energy Healing to Workshops & Classes, Balance for Life offers a variety of different paths towards relaxation, healing, education, personal betterment, as well as spiritual growth and we are proud to be named one of the most sought after place of healing on Long Island. Starting in 2017, Balance for Life will begin its journey in honoring the Sacred Divine Feminine.

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” ~ Gandhi


Balance for Life
248-260 Middle Country Road
Selden, New York 11784


Phone: (631) 736-9999
Email: info@balanceforlife.us
or via our Contact form.


Mon-Fri 12:00pm-9:00pm
Saturday 12:00pm-4:00pm
Sunday Advanced Booking
All sessions are by Appointment Only

Please refer to the General Information and Our Policies pages for detailed information!

Map & Directions

We are located just east of North Ocean Avenue ( County Road 83 ) in the Coram -Selden Professional building along the south-bound side of Middle Country Road ( Route 25 ).

Our Healing Facility

Our office includes 2 large treatment rooms, a relaxing & spacious reception area as well as a boutique that offers a wide selection of beautiful crystals, jewelry, body and skin care products and many unusual gift items.

Our clients are testaments that the healing really does begin the moment they walk through our door..

Balance for Life has some of the best teachers, psychics & facilitators on Long Island, sharing their knowledge, gifts, healing and skills each month in one of our most exciting & complete schedules so far.


Our Spiritual School


ACHH accreditedbywma




Our Staff

Katherine Mongiello

Kathy’s journey began shortly after the events of 911 and emerged into the “healing sector” as a Licensed Massage Therapist. By Nov. 2007, she found herself owner of a Massage Therapy office and by Divine Grace and Guidance, quickly created a healing sanctum of peace and profound healing for the Mind, Body & Soul. Her practice has become widely known throughout Long Island, parts of the United States, as well as overseas. Referred to as, “The Healers’ Healer ” and known as a “Natural, Intuitive Healer” in the spiritual community, Kathy continues to help those looking to begin their Spiritual Journey, works closely with many psychics, mediums and healer’s, continues to educate students interested in the expansion of their gifts and skills, and has helped gifted teens & young adults find their place in the world of spirit. Kathy has written and comprised all manuals used in her Reiki certification classes & is the original creator for Balance for Life’s, “Angel Healing Therapy”.

“To our fallen brothers and sisters from 911, it was because of you that I now stand in the light.” ~ Kathy


LMT, Associates Traditional Chinese Medicine, Reiki Grand Master/Teacher, Herbalism, Lightarian Facilitator, Rent Tent Facilitator, BA/BS in Physical Education & Education ( K-12 ), BA in Dance & Fine Arts


  • National Certification For Therapeutic Massage & Bodywork: NCBTMB# 517063-06
  • Reflexology
  • Diploma from The Thai Massage School of Chiang Mai, Thailand
  • Tuning Fork Practitioner
  • Tibetan Bowl Transformation Practitioner
  • Womb Health: Crystal Womb Reiki Practitioner, Womb Yoga Instructor, Womb Wrap Detox Specialist, Ancient Womb Smoking Facilitator
  • Yoni Herbal/EO Steam Practitioner
  • Aromatherapy
  • Crystal Healer
  • Cupping Therapy/Facial Rejuvenation

Continuing Education Training:

Lomi-Lomi (HI), Hot Stone Massage, Animal Reiki-Komyo Reiki Kai, Shamanic Healing, Psychic Development, Couples Reiki





Debbie Losee

debbie_lossee_photo_websiteDebbie began her spiritual journey many years ago. Wanting to help others, she was led to train in Reiki. From there Debbie expanded her education and training and  to include Magnified Healing, IET and then became a Oneness Blessing Giver. The Oneness Blessing helps raise consciousness and invoke a sense of oneness with all that is. Debbie facilitates The Oneness Blessings at Balance for life each month and currently studies mediumship. Debbie is also an active Young Living Distributor and utilizes the essential oils within her own beauty and cleaning products, creating her own as well as in the promotion of healing as a practitioner.






BS in Elementary Education, Cortland, MS in Reading Teacher, Cortland, MS in Library Science, St. John


  • Oneness Blessing Giver
  • Reiki Master Practitioner/Teacher
  • Magnified Healing Practitioner
  • IET Practitioner